Although Mary had appeared to have lived her life, married twice, numerous children and now grandchildren, a job and a apparently happy marriage.  She was harbouring a secret even from herself.  

During a particularly trying time of raising a young adult member of the family her ability to 'just get on with things' vanished and she started to lose her temper and was feeling a shadow of herself.  Her friends would tell her she was day dreaming at work or in conversation and she was totally unaware of any of this .  In fact she was flumoxed as to what they were all talking about.

She knew that her childhood and early adulthood had trauma but she never discussed this with anyone, not even her beloved husband, because she thought it was unimportant and also that the horror of the abuse she had suffered was actually some flaw in her.

She had resisted counselling in earlier life in spite of sending her own children to therapists if required.  She thought therapy was for the weak or the the hopeless and she simply avoided this, until one day in a state of desperation she found Self Actualising Trauma Thrivers on Facebook 

Thats when we met.

Through a mix of acceptance, trust and deshaming process Mary has learned and experienced a form of radical self acceptance.

We used a personalised collection of Reiki, Soul retrieval, neuro hacking Ayurvedic principals and yoga from the Vedas, which has led her to realising her potential as a healer herself and embarking on collaborative work on helping others to heal also.